Shortly after I was married, my husband and I became very involved in the alternative lifestyle. My husband was more interested in sharing his new wife, than swapping partners. He loves to see the pleasure on my face when I am with other people enjoying myself. It brings him pleasure to see me with men, women and couples exploring our sexuality.

After we were married for about a year, my husband placed an ad in a swinger paper.
Here is the ad. I have asked my husband to tell his story about how it felt to answer the calls from his ad. ( remember there was no e mail back then)

Here is the story only my husband can tell.

Julie and I were married after college. We started talking about the alternative lifestyle after just a few dates. We both have a strong sex drive and even at a young age, were able to separate sex from love. After meeting a couple who we enjoyed for quite some time, we decided it was time to expand our options. So I placed an ad in a local swingers paper. I was shocked with the replies and calls. Remember at that time there was no such thing as e mail, so the paper offered a mail forwarding service and a voice mail service.

I received very few rude, crude or disgusting calls. I did not receive any rude letters.

My first call was from a older widow. He was very interested in sharing my wife, but was not sure if he was secure being with a couple. He preferred to have me watch or take pictures ( for private use only) but was not comfortable with me participating. I asked Julie what she thought.

She asked me how I felt about her with another man if I was not allowed to touch. I said I was very comfortable with the idea as long as I can watch and take pictures. I called the man back to schedule a time and day and to do some screening just to be safe. He told me that he thought about it and was only comfortable if he could be alone with my wife. I politely thanked him and declined the offer.

I called Julie at work to tell her the news. She sounded a little let down. She was looking forward to our life together in the swinging lifestyle.

We did not receive a call or letter for almost a week. We started to wonder why no one was interested in sharing my young wife. The next day I went to the post office and found a slip for a oversized package. I went to the counter and received my overstuffed oversized envelope. It was from the swingers paper where we placed an ad.

I could not figure out what would be in the envelope. I opened it only to find more envelopes, and I mean more. There must have been 50 letters addressed to us in that large envelope. I could not wait to get home to show Julie.

We spent that evening opening and reading letters as well as fantasizing about sharing my wife with a complete stranger. It is hard to understand unless you are in the lifestyle, what a thrill it is. I know people who like to skydive, I know people who like to snorkel and I know people who love to golf, but unless you are into that sport, it is hard to understand and appreciate the excitement and enjoyment you receive.

We read letter after letter, ( isn't e mail great ) and decided to stack them up based on if it was a single guy ( single, divorced or widowed) , married guy looking for activities outside of his marriage or a couple. The majority of the letters were from single guys. They all wanted to share my wife.

The next day Julie read through the letters again. Several of the single men included pictures. It was obvious she had an interest in the single guys, the funny thing is, she had more of an interest in the older single guys than she did in the young ones her age.

When I returned home from work, Julie explained that she had called a few of the guys who sent letters. She had arranged for us to meet one of the single guys on friday night. All week, this is all we talked about. Julie was so excited to meet someone she could enjoy spending time with.

When I returned home on friday night, Julie was already showered and shaved. She has been shaving her pussy for as long as I have known her. She was so hot and so young.

After I showered, we headed to the restaurant to meet our new friend. We arrived and you could feel the excitement building. There in the corner booth was Tom, the guy Julie had been corresponding with. He looked exactly like his picture.

Tom explained that his wife had passed away and he was lonely and needed to be with a women. Tom was so thankful that we showed up. He went on to explain that he was not into dating and had pursued several ads in the swinger paper but they all turned out to be a fraud. He was not sure he should respond to our ad, since he had been stood up so many times before.

Julie sat next to Tom and put her hand on his thigh. I thought he was going to have an orgasm right there in the restaurant. He ordered us a drink and then explained that he needed to jump start his sex life before he starts dating again. He said he was turned on by the idea of either a couple or having a husband watch him have sex with his wife. He explained that this is called a cockhold.

Cockhold is when a husband sits and watches another man fuck his wife. Sometimes the man is restrained and other times he is humiliated if the other man is much larger than the husband. This was not the case, we had agreed that I would just watch Julie and offer her support, like maybe hold her hand, rub her back or caress her thighs. Tom would be with Julie for his pleasures and hers. I would receive my pleasure just watching Julie enjoy herself.

While we enjoyed dinner, courtesy of Tom, Julie definitely jump started his motor. She ran her hands against his groin, rubbed his thighs, she even ran her hand up under his shirt to feel his nipples. I had to remind her to wait till we got to Tom's hotel room. I was afraid she was going to climb under the table and start to suck Tom's cock.

When we went to leave the restaurant, Tom presented Julie with a small box, inside was a beautiful pair of earrings. Julie was surprised, this was not expected. Tom paid for dinner and drinks, but no gift was expected.

We headed to the hotel and went straight to Tom's room. It was a suite, complete with a jacuzzi tub, living room and large screen TV. Tom had went all out. I sat down on the large chair near the sofa, Julie and Tom sat down on the sofa.

Tom started to make small talk, about his life experiences, about the loss of his wife and the emptiness in his life. He then asked Julie why she chose him. He seemed concerned that such a young, beautiful girl would chose him. She moved a little closer, took off her shoes and got comfortable. She explained to Tom that she likes men who appreciate women, who treat women with respect and most of all, someone that she can make a difference with.

Tom looked confused, Julie explained that it would not mean anything to her to go play with a young stud who has a different girl every saturday night. But with someone like Tom, she is bringing him pleasure that he can't get anywhere else. I now realize that it was then, that Julie came up with this idea about being a sex coach and providing pleasure to men of all ages.

Tom was so respectful and nice, he waited to let Julie take the lead. Julie slowly started to undress Tom. This was a new experience, Julie and I had been to some wild and crazy parties and clubs, but I have never sat and watched my bride undress another man and prepare to have sex while I just watched. We had participated in a few group parties while we dated, but I had never actually sat and watched my wife have sex with a stranger. It was a strange feeling.

Tom put on some soft rock music to help calm the mood. Soon Julie had Tom undressed and Tom started to undress Julie. First her shirt came off, then her skirt, here is my wife sitting next to a nude older man wearing nothing but her lace bra and panties.

It was like turning on the music, Tom took Julie in his arms and started to kiss her and slowly feel every inch of her body. Then Tom unclipped her bra and it fell to the floor. There was my wife about to have her gorgeous breasts kissed, licked and sucked by a stranger. Julie started to feel Tom's chest and lick his nipples.

Tom took one hand and slowly started to slide it into Julie's panties, I could see the panties slowly crawling down her legs. Within a few minutes Julie was nude and her clothes and undergarments laid piled up on the floor. Tom gently moved his mouth lower until her reaches Julie's pussy.

Julie quietly adjusted herself so her back was resting on the arm of the sofa and her legs were spread apart, almost like she was welcoming her new lover into her most private area. Tom's tongue was quickly moving from side to side and up and down. You could hear his excitement as well as see the energy he was putting into making sure Julie was enjoying her moment of ecstasy.

Julie was moaning and panting, you could tell she was having the first of many orgasms. She tried to pull herself up to reach Tom in order to kiss his lips, but the waves of pleasure were too much. She just fell back and enjoyed the tongue of an older man.

I could see Tom was ready to let Julie return the favor. So Tom reclined and Julie started to repay the favor. Julie took Tom's cock in her hands and felt ever curve, almost like she was examining it. She then slid her lips on Tom's cock and started to slide up and down. Soon Julie was licking Tom's cock like a melting ice cream cone, making sure not to miss one drop.

I was really enjoying the show at this point, but I knew what was going to be next. Julie looked into Tom's eyes and without saying a word, gave him a signal that she was ready to complete the experience. Tom lead Julie into his room, I moved my chair so I could see every move. The mirror over the dresser gave me a double view.

Tom spread out first with Julie crawling on to the bed, ready to feel each others bodies. Julie started to kiss Tom and feel ever inch of his body. Tom started to tease Julie with the tip of his cock. Soon, it was not teasing, Julie let out a loud moan, she had slid down on his shaft, and started to ride him cowgirl.

Tom could not take his eyes off her gorgeous breasts. They were young and firm with long pointed nipples. Julie continued to ride and moan, I could tell she was enjoying this and was in a world of her own. Tom asked Julie to dismount and get on all fours so he could mount her doggie style. Julie climbed on the bed and got into a K-9 position.

Tom climbed on the bed and entered her from the rear. He gently slid his cock into her waiting pussy. Tom rode Julie like a master, he held her hips and continued to pull her closer and closer, their hips looked like they were dancing.

Julie started to moan like a kitten, I knew she was about ready to have a massive orgasm. Tom pulled out and gently rolled her over and lifted up her legs. Julie let out a moan, for the first time, my thoughts went from enjoyment to concern. I was not sure if Julie was enjoying the moment or if Tom was becoming to rough for this young wife of mine. Just them Tom slipped her legs on his shoulders and started to pound Julie.

It was like he shifted gears, he went from a slow and gentle rhythm to a fast, high power driving action. I was starting to feel uneasy. I was on the end of my seat, not sure if i should try to stop Tom or just allow Julie to control the moment. I waited and listened for a sign of pain.

Julie was moaning and moaning, she then shouted, Fuck Me, Fuck Me, again I was not sure if she was enjoying this or in pain. Here I was, sitting in a chair, watching this complete stranger thrusting as hard as he could inside my young wife. This man was old enough to be her father, yet strong enough to be her lover.

Minutes seemed like hours, Julie was starting to sweat and pant, Tom was starting to take short deep breaths, Julie was screaming in ecstasy. Tom was starting to change motions and go from a smooth but fast rhythm to a hard pounding action. The two of them seemed like they were nearing a massive orgasm.

Just then, Tom let out a loud "Oh Yes" followed by Julie's "Yes, Yes" like they were agreeing on this wonderful completion. Tom quickly calmed down and pulled his wet, soft cock out of Julie's pink and wet pussy. They both collapsed on the bed and just rested. I walked over to Julie to make sure she was ok and to my surprise, she said, " I had a great time, when can we do this again."

That was many years ago, but seemed to be the start of Sharing My Wife. If this situation interests you, please e mail Julie. She is looking to repeat this memory in the near future.

Julie has asked me to write about our group party when she was very young and we were still in school. It is called, Share My Girlfriend. If you enjoyed this story, you might want to check out the story about Julie's first group sex party.